I don’t have time for negative people in my life, I don’t have much patience, desire or acceptance and I don’t say that with arrogance, I say that with sincerity. And I share this with you because you shouldn’t accept negativity in your life either.
I’d say that 98% of people that are or come into my life are good people, they’re honest and positive. The 2% I leave for the passer byers, the window shoppers, the ones that just want to see what’s going on, they have no intention of staying, especially when they see what they’re getting themselves into.
If you’re not a truthful person it’s hard to look truth in the face, if you’re not an honest person it’s hard to be around honest people. Your ego shouts ‘let’s get out of there!’. I wasn’t always like this, I’d say it was quite the opposite. I didn’t surround myself with positive people, I didn’t have great coaches or teammates, I didn’t put myself in positive circumstances and I probably didn’t have the best intentions; and that’s why I know both sides of the coin.
If you speak words of truth, if you’re genuine, if you believe in what you do and say, you can only attract those same types of people, that same type of energy. If you’re constantly around drama, if you’re attracted to people that cause it(if it’s not you), if you’re grown and still getting in trouble; this is all a direct reflection of what you’re giving off. No one’s a victim in this life, we choose our circumstances, we choose our environment, we choose what we become through thoughts, action and words.
Speak the truth, be a real person and good things will come to you. Have you ever had someone look into you, not at you? It’s like they’re looking for something, almost like their ego is looking to see if they’re safe around you; once they figure out they’re not, once they realize everything about you and around you is positive they have to carry on, it’s just the way it works.
And you know what I’m talking about, sometimes I think I shouldn’t share some of my thoughts, sometimes I hit the save button and store in the ‘post later’ file, but you’re ready for this, you’re ready to hear if positive things aren’t happening in your life you need to look within first; if trouble often happens to you or around you, only you can make an adjustment in your life. You know what I mean when I say at times when people stop in your life they’re not looking at you they’re looking in you; you’ve seen that look and if you’re the one looking you know what I’m talking about too, it’s time to make a positive change.
Somewhere inside you’re agreeing with this, you could deny it or it could hit you days, months or years later but it can’t be avoided. The thoughts you think, the words you speak and the actions you perform is one giant aura of energy; you’ll attract the same type that you have. If you don’t like what you have change it, and watch the gates of opportunity and goodness open like you couldn’t imagine.